The people we meet at the wrong time are actually just the wrong people.
Before writing this post, I took a break to read some books. The unfortunate book that will have to face my obsession until I finish it is the ACOTAR series by Sarah J. Maas. I'm up for a long ride for this one. I can't help but be excited to cry when I finally finish a series that I loved. Guess what? I also can't help but be sad when you left too early.
Sad song recommendation tonight is Masyado Pang Maaga by Ben&Ben!
Bakit ba ang hirap-hirap
Magsabi nang deretsahan?
'Di pagkakaunawaan
Puwede sanang pag-usapan
Miscommunication or the outright refusal to communicate is just one of the reasons why a relationship is bound to fail. Some people struggle with communication. I'll be honest here; there are times when I, too, find it difficult to express what's on my mind because I feel too exposed. I feel overly scrutinized. I feel vulnerable, and my mind, which has grown accustomed to solitude, is startled by the sudden need to reveal thoughts that were once solely mine.
But when you came, it just felt right to tell you things; it was natural. However, it was one-sided. You wouldn't do the things that I do for you. The balance was simply askew. We were bound to fail, another product of miscommunication. It was such a silly way to end. But it is what it is.
Tahan, puwede pa bang malaman
Laman ng iyong isipan
Para walang maling akala?
Maybe it was because we were too alike to function. Or it may be because you see too much of yourself in me that you felt compelled and started to hate me. I'm just assuming things, I know. However, I still can't get Herman Hesse's words out of my mind:
“If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us.”
Did you like this song? Here's Ben&Ben's Spotify:
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